Become More Likable

When I had the opportunity to share some of my sales and marketing information with you, I jumped at the opportunity. I have so much I want to share with you, and you’re going to find that I look at marketing and sales from a different angle. The older I get, which means the more experienced I get, the easier it gets.

Sometimes we shoot ourselves in the foot. We complicate this thing called sales and it doesn’t have to be that way. In the next series of vignettes, I’m going to share with you much of what I’ve learned over the last thirty years of selling travel. I’ve been in the travel industry since 1984 and I want to share with you all kinds of little secrets or tactics that will help the home-based entrepreneur become more successful.

Now, I’m looking at you as entrepreneurs, not travel agents. I really don’t care what you sell, I know it’s travel-related, but today I’m talking to entrepreneurs.

I want to start by sharing a story with you. Now, I’m going back a few years. I was selling meetings to a large corporation. It was my first sales call on this organization when the first thing I saw in the conference room were balloons on a table.

Here I am, a salesman, calling on the decision maker with hopes of selling my services when the first thing I see are celebratory balloons. The next thing I spotted was a cake.

I asked, “What are you celebrating?” As it turned out their current vendor had just won an award for the service they were providing. (Our competitor.) We were calling to try to knock them out of the box, trying to re[place them. There’s the balloons. There’s the cake. There is a trophy. This is called bad timing.

I wanted to turn around and exit for the door. I said to my boss who was attending this initial meeting with me, “We can’t sell these people anything. They just won an award. What are we going to do?” My boss said, “We’re here, let’s talk to them.” We sat down; we told them what we had to say; we left. To me, it was an exercise in futility.

Two days later my phone rang and they awarded us the business.

As all good salespeople know, when you are awarded the business you stop talking. You graciously accept the business and prepare to put your promises into action. Period!

That decision puzzled me. About a year later, having befriended the decision maker, I asked him, “Dan, why did you give us the business the day after your current vendor just won this award?” He looked at me and he said, “Mike, it was an easy decision. I didn’t like them.” I will always remember his words.

This is a key selling point: people do business with people they like. If you want to increase your sales, become more likeable. There’s also another point I would like to make: people like people who like them.

So, if you want to get to the point where more people will start liking you, start looking for more things and more reasons to like your customers and to like your prospects. This will work. You will soon see.

Primary Message: If you want to be more successful in sales, become more likable.